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Citizenperth User ID: 66515138 Australia 05/10/2016 12:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | don't be to hard on the family.... sometimes people feign ignorance in the face of their fears... especially in hospitals... It's life as we know it, but only just. [link to citizenperth.wordpress.com] sic ut vos es vos should exsisto , denego alius vicis facio vos change , exsisto youself , proprie |
A Friend User ID: 44359681 United States 05/10/2016 01:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP I have sent prayers for the three of you. I also lift up those prayers of the others in agreement. In this lifetime you will encounter difficulties. Your part is to consider how you will react. Rest in the strength of the Lord. Know that everything is for a purpose even though we may not know that this purpose is. Give your girlfriend all the love you can right now. You know how horrible this is making you feel, now add to that the physical pain and fear that your girl is going through. Make each moment of this tragic experience be filled with gentleness and compassion. But Lord, he stinketh! :fnecsm: "When the sky crackles in an electric dance of a beautiful requiem of lapis lazuli, maybe you will remember..." ~ Anonymous Coward 77360040 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71538635 United States 05/10/2016 01:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Does your girlfriend want them there? My family... some of them gather like a medical emergency is group time. People babble when they don't know what else to do because silence is so painful in deeply personal times. It can be unnerving and uncomfortable but I do believe they mean well. Peace be with you and if possible take a day trip so you can have the personal time that you both need together. A change of scenery can make it easier to talk. God bless you both. |
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Sobriquet™ User ID: 67536071 United States 05/10/2016 02:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I am at the hospital. My pregnant gf has had complications. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 Her mom is here with an aunt & her daughter. All of them are laughing joking talking like there is nothing wrong. And I am just sitting here thinking that our baby will die. I am not being dramatic; we are here waiting for her to miscarry Papa God please heal and be with the gf and the baby and the AC OP. Give OP strength and fill OP with Your Holy Spirit. Give OP knowledge and wisdom with regards to this situation. Also give compassion to the gf's family. Fill them with love and joy, and compassion and respect. Heal all of their spirits and souls. Heal their hearts and minds. Heal even their bodies and emotions. Melt away their unbelief in Your Son, Jesus. In Christ Jesus' Name we pray, even now, be in that hospital room. Amen. Amen Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
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In Yer Neck User ID: 66903261 United States 05/10/2016 02:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I am at the hospital. My pregnant gf has had complications. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 Her mom is here with an aunt & her daughter. All of them are laughing joking talking like there is nothing wrong. And I am just sitting here thinking that our baby will die. I am not being dramatic; we are here waiting for her to miscarry Papa God please heal and be with the gf and the baby and the AC OP. Give OP strength and fill OP with Your Holy Spirit. Give OP knowledge and wisdom with regards to this situation. Also give compassion to the gf's family. Fill them with love and joy, and compassion and respect. Heal all of their spirits and souls. Heal their hearts and minds. Heal even their bodies and emotions. Melt away their unbelief in Your Son, Jesus. In Christ Jesus' Name we pray, even now, be in that hospital room. Amen. Amen. It's been swell, but the swellings gone down.- Tank girl "To hell with them fella's. Buzzards gotta eat, same as the worms." - Josey Wales. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71158164 United States 05/10/2016 02:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So I am at the hospital. My pregnant gf has had complications. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 Her mom is here with an aunt & her daughter. All of them are laughing joking talking like there is nothing wrong. And I am just sitting here thinking that our baby will die. I am not being dramatic; we are here waiting for her to miscarry Papa God please heal and be with the gf and the baby and the AC OP. Give OP strength and fill OP with Your Holy Spirit. Give OP knowledge and wisdom with regards to this situation. Also give compassion to the gf's family. Fill them with love and joy, and compassion and respect. Heal all of their spirits and souls. Heal their hearts and minds. Heal even their bodies and emotions. Melt away their unbelief in Your Son, Jesus. In Christ Jesus' Name we pray, even now, be in that hospital room. Amen. In Jesus name, AMEN |
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Yes I Did !! User ID: 70030438 United States 05/10/2016 02:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry for you OP. I just went through this with my daughter and her husband. She was 16 weeks. My daughter and her husband really wanted this child. They'd tried to get pg for months. They pretty much fell apart when the doctor couldn't find the heartbeat. It broke my heart as well. The worst thing was that my son-in-law's parents were so cold... and told him that my daughter and their son were "over reacting". That really hurt them even more. They named the baby and know that they'll see her again some day. They've come to the understanding that it just wasn't the "right" time. My prayers are with you. Stay strong, OP. "Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly." Albert Einstein. |
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In Yer Neck User ID: 66903261 United States 05/10/2016 04:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For your emotional reaction, you'll reap what you sow too ... very soon. I am an :-asshole-: What a turd. you reap what you sow is a universal law, moron. Like your karma which led to you being called out for being an ahole in such a great way. My apologies OP for this post in yer thread. I hope all is better for you soon. It's been swell, but the swellings gone down.- Tank girl "To hell with them fella's. Buzzards gotta eat, same as the worms." - Josey Wales. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72172741 Bulgaria 05/10/2016 04:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just can't believe people can be so fucked up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 So anyway just wanted to vent. All of them have their children & a future. my girl cried for a few minutes. Other than that they are just acting like its another day. I just can't believe people can be so fucked up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 So anyway just wanted to vent. All of them have their children & a future. my girl cried for a few minutes. Other than that they are just acting like its another day. Dude...a miscarriage is an event most females will experience at least once. Probably the females over there are better at deal with the thing. Sitting there and thinking obsessively at it wont help. Leave alone your gf is on hormones and those will already fuck up your brain alone. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 71353195 United States 05/10/2016 05:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now she is sleep. They are here. I am sitting in this crappy chai while they sit on what would have been my bed. Supposed to work in 30 min. Probably won't go. At least my girl is ok & sleeping. Sometimes I think that she will never know how much I truly love her. One of the worse days of my life & I am surrounded when her mom got here I asked if she was going to work & she said no why..I said really for time to grieve...she said well go on then lol I'm like we was right here in this room. Then everything calmed down. Her mom & aunt just keep looking at each other now rolling there eyes. when they brought the food out for her I cut up her food..her mom was like do you want me to do that? My girl said no he has got it.. Keep in mind we are both in our mid to late 30's |
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A Friend User ID: 44359681 United States 05/10/2016 05:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For your emotional reaction, you'll reap what you sow too ... very soon. Do you, ac, understand the impact of your words upon others? You are quick to condemn. You are telling them about the impact of energy that they give out while you do not see how you are showing yourself. When one finger is pointing out, three are pointing back. Please tread softly. But Lord, he stinketh! :fnecsm: "When the sky crackles in an electric dance of a beautiful requiem of lapis lazuli, maybe you will remember..." ~ Anonymous Coward 77360040 |
A Friend User ID: 44359681 United States 05/10/2016 05:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just can't believe people can be so fucked up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 So anyway just wanted to vent. All of them have their children & a future. my girl cried for a few minutes. Other than that they are just acting like its another day. I just can't believe people can be so fucked up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71353195 So anyway just wanted to vent. All of them have their children & a future. my girl cried for a few minutes. Other than that they are just acting like its another day. Dude...a miscarriage is an event most females will experience at least once. Probably the females over there are better at deal with the thing. Sitting there and thinking obsessively at it wont help. Leave alone your gf is on hormones and those will already fuck up your brain alone. MOST women certainly DO NOT experience miscarriage. But Lord, he stinketh! :fnecsm: "When the sky crackles in an electric dance of a beautiful requiem of lapis lazuli, maybe you will remember..." ~ Anonymous Coward 77360040 |
Just Trina User ID: 58936482 United States 05/10/2016 05:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Praying for you and your baby OP Hang in there with her family and try your best to ignore them, chew your tongue in half if you have too to keep from from saying something you may regret later, it's a very stressful time and I'm so sorry a glp family member has to go this without a supportive member right there, but please know we are ALL right here for you! God is able and all things are in his hands. Sometimes we only see down the road when God alone can see down the road, around the bend, through the valley and over the mountains to know all the reasons why. You will be in our thoughts and on our hearts continually today. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 71353195 United States 05/10/2016 05:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hey so thanks. I feel like an ass for even posting this. I just had to get it out. I am here for my lady. She is resting now. we did lose the baby. I will be there for her as long as I can be. Life is crazy, people are crazy.. I would think that most moms would want their children growing up & moving out & having families of their own. My girls mom really just wants them to move back she is always around. when i was still MR. Right she even said hey it would be great if we could all live together & get along. Then he could buy that truck he wants...I asked my girl..what truck? I already own a truck. It will be a hard road to stick together & eventually she will get her way. Thanks again & I appreciate the kind words & understanding |