My father is genetic trash and I hate him

fukin sad shit. Reminds me a lot of my situation. My dad was actually the same age as your dad when he conceived me. Having an incel father is a recipe for faliure, the only exception being if your mother is a robust polynesian whale.

I'm sure it must be difficult as a father to be around you...what a horrible person you are..

Fuck this is a lot to read. Someone be a gem and sum this up for me.

I didn't weigh more than 135 all through high school, yet 4 year varsity wrestler, 3 year varsity cross country. Youu don't have to be 6'2 220lbs to be a winner.

Maybe the two of you should get together and braid each others hair...

He was a bullied nerd in high school, who went on to attain S, and reproduce with some ex carosel rider that I call my mother. Most of my shitty features come from him. He wouldn't admit it, but I know that he regards me as a loser and a faliure. He sometimes dosen't even reply to my texts that I send him from college. He likely blames me for all of my lifes faliures, such as being bullied and being rejected by my peers. He dosen't realise that I have had a rough time socially becasue of HIS shitty genes. His crappy genetic legacy has meant that I have been forced to endure constant shit my entire youth, all because of things outside my control, like my puny frame and ugly face. My dad was also bullied in school, and I think that he somehow wanted to live through me during my own high-school experience. When this failed, and I was bullied too, he seemed to give up on me, and start resenting me for not being eveything that he never was. What the fuck did he expect though? He was a framecel loser in school, so the chances were high that his own son would be too.

I tried my hardest to make friends and get a gf in high-school, but people still treated me like scum because of my looks. I couldn't play sports, because I had a late puberty and was physically behind other boys my age. The stupid fuck used to tell me to play sports in high school, but didn't even take into account the fact that I weighed 65kg (140lbs) at 18 years of age. Fucking pathetic. School coaches would laugh in your face if you tried to join a high school rugby team with those stats. He also refused to teach me any sports when I was a child or teach me any manly activities like hunting. He then suddenly expected me to have an interest in these things in my teens. My father also thinks he is a "funny guy", and makes jokes with people, like saying "thanks dad" to male cashiers that are decades younger than him. He always has to make some sort of stupid unneccesary aspie joke with anyone he meets. He almost certainly has autism as well, he was a huge nerd in high school, and has all the symptoms. He is undiagnosed, but even claims to be autistic, as if he is proud of the fact that his brain is fucked. He has the most pathetic physique I have ever seen as well. During my childhood, he was around 110kg (220lbs), basically all fat, with pathetic narrow shoulders and wide hips. He has now cut down to about 180lbs, and I can see that his underlying frame is that of a 15 year old boy. To top it all off, he was selfish enough to conceive me at age 41. His sperm was almost certainly of shitty quality, and I suspect I may have inherited autism/burgers from him. Thanks for reading everyone, just wanted to vent about my pathetic excuse for a father. I fucking hate him.
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Then you are too. Bad genes + normal(?) genes = meh genes. Congrats on that, buddy

My dad was a bullied nerd in HS

Attained status, and got an ex carosel rider who became my mother

Clearly wanted to live through my own youth, resents me because I also became a bullied nerd.

Dosen't realise that my faliure is due to things outside my control (his piece of shit genetics).

It's the same reason dumb, ugly dogs breed dumb, ugly dogs. Even if your mother had average IQ and looks, you will still Bear the brunt of that

Summary...he's hates his dad for having him late in life...he isn't the best looking in the room or the richest...he was picked on at school because he doesn't realize he was giving off the permission for them to do so with his attitude...so he hates his dad.

Well youre in college so your life cant be that big of a failure. I get that your dads not the brightest tool, but you need to take responsibility for yourself. Are you aleast bulking and lifting now?

I think it's still possible for some genetically inferior men to have good looking daughters (depending on the mother of course). Narrow shoulders and wide hips aren't a bad thing for women. But if you have fat genes and not just diet/exercise, maybe you shouldn't have a daughter either.

They have these wonderous inventions nowadays called barbells start using them!

omega detected

Op....do you feel more comfortable using the woman's bathroom by any chance?

thing is, he hates the courses that I am taking, and still views me as a faliure because of crappy social life. I am in a dorm, but will be home in a few days time, so will start bulking then. I managed to reach 74kg before the start of dorm life this year, after about 3 months of bulking (9kg gain). I think its hard not to resent someone who has given you the curse of terrible genetics. I would rather that he had never even reproduced, it would have prevented so much suffering and torment on my part.

Ah, the facts of life. Wonderful

same here OP, except my dad had almost NOTHING going for him. he was a piece of shit and shouldnt even be able to raise a goldfish, but my mom was just old and desparate.

Damn DEM FEELS!

I feel op and some of you posters in here.

My parents were really old when they had me.

My father is extremely socially awkward (I´m pretty damn sure he has Aspergers although he has never been diagnosed), bitter and legitimately has an IQ below 90. I´ve known him for 25 years and I´ve honestly never spoken to him for more than three sentences although he was home every single day. Never seen him laugh once in 25 years. He has zero sense of humor and is always negative and serious. Has never made a joke in his entire life. Hates movies, hates music and hates literally everything I do. Dinner at home was always extremely cold. Almost no talking in a badly lit room. His only advice in life he drilled into me from an early age was to study hard, ignore anything social and do well in school so that I can support him with money once he is old. He was just an overall mean person to everyone and absolutely nobody likes him.

Oh yeah, and meanwhile all these instagram cunts and fellow Chads grew up with loving, rich parents with good genes and a gazillion cool friends. The most traumatizing thing they will ever experience is getting cut off in traffic. Otherwise their life will be one of constant validation, romance, friendship, happiness and positivity. All the things that make life worth living and that I have never experienced in life and never will.

I fucking hate this life and want revenge.

You didn't ask for my advice but I feel compelled to try and help you.

Do some searching around and join a GOOD martial arts studio. Watch classes. Take a trial class. Find an instructor who isn't a bully. When you find a good school you will become a new man. If you find it boring or dangerous you are in the wrong school. The martial arts are not like sports. This will be a personal journey to constantly become a better YOU. It won't happen overnight but after a while you will gain confidence and a fit body. Women will be more attracted to you and people will no longer make fun of you.

Your lack of confidence in yourself is what is holding you back. The martial arts is a change in your whole life. You will meet people there. You will think more about your diet and nutrition. You will HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH WITH CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF. Do not delay. I am extremely serious.

I wish you all the best. Oh, almost forgot... all that anger that is pent up inside you will have a release.

Ey lmao. I take it you weren't an early riser like I was, either. Sucks, bro. You're condemned to people thinking less of you.

OP is a supreme gentleman.

At least your dad sounds like provided economically for your. My dad didn't, he's a piece of shit 5'5 mestizo and the only reason why I'm not complete genetic trash is because my mom is a Selma Hayek lookalike. I hate my dad and I wish he was dead. Instead of taking care of me, he cursed me with his shitty genes and then moved to Mexico so he wouldn't have to pay for me. He has never worked a day on his life and he never will. I wish my dad would have been a beta provider and white. I would at least be tall and wouldn't have to be saving money for limb-lengthening so I could fuck ethnic girls. I wish so bad that my mother had cucked him with Chad. I have told this to my mom and she has even apologized for reproducing with that genetic scum.

Like being trapped in a meat suit?

Remember the brain you used to decide that question is of inferior stock if all your momma had for the most part was her somehow charming feminine traits.

My sentiments exactly. I'm 5'8, 140 lbs and still have the frame of a 15 year old boy but ive always enjoyed weight training and look great for 50. Im built like a high school athelete while the other idiots my age are fat, bald and cant get it up.

Basically, to sum it up: life sucks and shit happens.

Yeah I'm a pretty ugly mug but I have a beautiful daughter. The only thing I had going for Me in High school was I was slim. The OP needs to stop hating on His father though because those are His genes now. Has it ever occurred to the OP to work with His strengths instead of focusing on His weaknesses. Generally late bloomers are more intelligent than early bloomers so Why not educate Himself and use His brain to compete instead of sitting around whining about His lot in life.


I didn't have a father or a stable family so I didn't have any sort of support early in life. Apparently Your father cares enough about you to send You to school so stop bitching.