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Prayers for you)

I just can't believe people can be so fucked up.

So anyway just wanted to vent. All of them have their children & a future.
my girl cried for a few minutes. Other than that they are just acting like its another day.

I want to flip & tell them all to get out.
but its my girls family.

Just go with the flow, some people have different ways of dealing with possible bad outcomes.

Thank you for the prayers cuz I am really gonna need them.
Its not just the baby...now I feel like I don't belong here.
Her family. Her mom just keeps smiling like its the best news in the world. I know she doesn't want us together. I am fully grown 35 year old man. She is 32.

She is 15 weeks

Hi chip I am the same guy that talked to you about a week ago.
your advise was to play it cool & see how it goes.
I dunno if you remember

going to go,walk the dog, will think and send you my meditative positive walking energy OP. Hang in there, no matter what happens, be strong for your loved ones, including yourself. -peace and safety to you and yours-

The dr. Already said that there was no way the baby will live. They are go, a let her have it now. And its to young to live.

Papa God please heal and be with the gf and the baby and the AC OP. Give OP strength and fill OP with Your Holy Spirit. Give OP knowledge and wisdom with regards to this situation. Also give compassion to the gf's family. Fill them with love and joy, and compassion and respect.

Heal all of their spirits and souls. Heal their hearts and minds. Heal even their bodies and emotions. Melt away their unbelief in Your Son, Jesus. In Christ Jesus' Name we pray, even now, be in that hospital room. Amen.

Poop on the floor, they won't be happy anymore, you'll feel a little better, you'll assert some dominance and change the focus. I hope your worries go away, and I hope there is no miscarriage.

God Bless and God Speed to you and yours OP.

Probably not too serious if her family don't seem too worried. Relax

Thanks for the understanding.
I feel like an ass hole for even posting this.
My family is visiting my sis in Washington state at the moment

Chip your advise was great.

Sorry that none of us are there with you, to be there for you.

I do understand what you are feeling, because I have gone through it myself.

As for the seemingly 'disconnected' behavior of her relatives
-who appear to be failing to see your grave concern, obvious love and caring, and need for compassion and back-up at this tenuous time- all I can say is it may be best for you to ignore their ignorance...because you may be focusing your feelings of anger and fear onto them while you wait there, all alone.

I wish I had better words to help you cope through all this. Prayerful thoughts are with you and yours.

Good luck op!

Thanks yall

I just can't believe this is happening.
Got a call from work today- her mom..telling me to Bring my girls clothes to hospital

Lots of love to you and your gf and the little one.

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Lots of people care. You can see it in the replies here.
I'm so sorry, this is very upsetting.
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Good luck OP..hope all goes well

Pin and prayers for you OP..

A calm head is the best place to think from.. The body does not survive on tastes.

Ask if the hospital has a chaplain, if you are so inclined. You would have someone there to support you, since her family seems oblivious.
I wish I could be there with Esoteric to sit with you.

Prayers said.

Gosh, I'm really sorry you are having such a tough time and around such awful people. It is rough losing a pregnancy, and the hormones afterward really mess with you, too. The only thing I can console you with, is that often, a child is miscarried because it is not the right time for it to come, or because of a medical issue that would make life impossible for it. Often, that soul that has chosen its mother will show up again down the line. Don't give up, and just ignore the jeering section and be there for your girl.

Sometimes these miscarriages happen for a reason. The baby is not well.

I know of a woman who was not feeling well every single day of her pregnancy....but delivered her baby. He is obviously autistic...not well, and he's only a year old. So sad.